Chicken soup of the family....

Morning guys....Its 8 am and I'm in the lab.I am yawning non stop eventhough I get enough sleep.Must be this lab I thought hihi..--not enough oxygen-__-"

Ok.Balik semula dekat topik kita for today.I have one story to tell you guys,and hope you  no WE can gain something from the story.Actually ini adalah kisah benar saya ye adik-adik.he..he...

Hmm,the story begin like this............
Masa mula2 dapat offer dari Prof Raja, dapat sambung master..I told my mum,and she was very happy.Mama memang nak I sambung study, for a better living she said. I told my mom, don't worry bout my fees or my expenses because Prof will give RM1500 to me per month. Of course she was relieved, bukan tak tahu anak dia ni dah lah kuat shopping,makan nak sedap2 je..boleh pokaiii..Time tu mama cakap,I need to give her money,RM 150 per month, and I say yes I will...dengan yakinnya.

Bila dah start lab, my life start changing. Dah jarang2 makan dekat cafe UPM.Mesti makan dekat luar. Kadang2 lunch hour tu pergi Midvalley, makan sedap2..so duit tersangatlah cepat habis.and my little evil heart start thinking,hmm..kalau tak payah bagi mama duit,mesti cukup duit..ada duit lebih nak shopping.At that time I don't even have a car, but duit habis macam air.Tak boleh nak simpan pun!But still I give 150 to my mom every month..dengan sedikit perasaan tak rela(sedikit ok)

Sampai satu masa, memang dah tak cukup duit sangat2.Nak mintak duit kat mama malu lah pulak.Apa lagi korek la buku ASB,yg ada tah berapa sen je time tu...So pendekkan cerita I went to CIMB bank and tunjuk buku dengan muka tak malunya pergi dekat kaunter and cakap..akak,boleh tak check ada berapa baki dalam asb saya,saya nak keluarkan berapa je ada.Rasanya ada la 50 ringgit kot.Bila kakak tu bagi penyata, tengok baki ada RM800lebih.Eh biar betullll*sambil gosok2 mata* tak percaya.Bila tengok balik, tiap2 bulan ada orang masukkan 150 dalam asb..

Then things started to fall into place. Few months before that, mama call.Banyak kali tanya number ASB.I'm not an organize people you know.I just campak2 semua benda so banyak kali mama tanya and banyak kali I bagi alasan sebab malas nak cari.and she was so determined she call everyday sampai I finally gave the number to her.Know what,the money that I gave her, she give to me back.Via my ASB..and me, the ungrateful daughter, had think before that I will have enough money if I dont need to give it to my mom.Shame on you Ira!

Soon after that, I called my mom.I told her don't ever give the money back to me.I really want she spent the money for herself.Its a little amount of money but I nak dia guna for herself.All her life, everything is about us.Mama marah,dia cakap actually dia tak nak pun duit tu but she worried that I spent all the money and I dont have any saving(which is true)..and I started to cry(ya i know.. drama queen eh) and told her."Next time kalau mama masukkan duit yg kakak bagi dalam ASB kakak, tak nak da balik kampung.Orang bagi dekat mama,mama bagi kat orang balik"..Mama pun gelak sebab I menangis macam orang gila and cakap "Ok2 lain kali mama simpan dalam bank RHB kakak pulak"..Aik sempat buat lawak orang tengah emo nih...

Start dari situ, every month bila elaun dah masuk, me, without hesitate akan masukkan duit dalam bank mama.Ikhlas.Without any thinking.Tell you, lepas dah ikhlas bagi mama,hati jadi sangat happy.I dah ada kereta,and semua orang pelik,macam mana duit cukup bayar kereta,broadband,makan,minyak???Well KEBERKATAN I must say..Every month ada je rezeki lebih..Alhamdulillah.And to you guys, bila kita dah start ada duit,jangan lupa dekat mak(ayah pun tapi sekarang ni boleh bagi mak je)..Tak boleh banyak,bagi sikit.Kalau mak taknak,belikan barang2 dekat dia.Make sure your mom is part of your budget.Kalau dengan boyfriend boleh beli barang mahal2,belanja makan sedap2,why not your mom.Yes dia orang ada lagi banyak duit, but tipulah kalau mak tak terharu kalau kita belanja dia.Kita INSIST nak bagi dia.

So thats all.Just nak share with you guys..Hope ia sangat berguna ye.Love your mom.Love your family..BYEEEE